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What Makes for a Meaningful Life?
There’s all kinds of advice out there:
Joseph Campbell proclaims, “Follow your bliss.” Socrates tells us to examine our lives—exhaustively. Buddha advises to let go of attachment. Jesus asks us to lose ourselves in the service of God. Woody Allen says, “Life is meaningless.” Success gurus speak of becoming someone of high status—a millionaire. Thoreau recommends working as little as possible; he only spent six weeks a year selling pencils to pay for his simplified living. Sylvia Path writes that we must pick a path, a direction, or our potential will wither and die like an unpicked, black, wrinkled fig. The Neighborhood Atheist table I saw over the weekend at Balboa Park in San Diego displayed a banner that said, “RELAX. Hell does not exist. Or heaven either. Enjoy your life.” (It must be noted that no one at the table looked like they were enjoying life, but I’m sure they throw some great parties…)
So, who do we follow? What leads to a life of love, joy and fulfillment?
There are currently several popular philosophies about adult self-development and fulfillment:
You could spend a lifetime trying to figure out which point of view is correct (and many scientists, philosophers and thinkers have). But my thought is that it really doesn’t matter which particular theory you buy into. What matters is starting with something—a hypothesis—of what you believe will lead to greater meaning in your life and pursuing it. If you find out you’re wrong along the way, simply change course.
In my path to identify what makes for a meaningful life, I’ve had a lot of ups and downs. I’ve made millions and lost it all. I’ve suffered the wrath of the U.S. government and had my name cleared when I realized my ex-husband was lying to me just in the nick of time. I’ve dedicated myself to becoming an artist, then a businesswoman, then a writer, then a meaning legacy planning expert. I’ve been incredibly religious and rejected religion completely. I’ve followed my gut and ignored it. I’ve gotten so caught up in a story, I trapped myself with only my thoughts. I’ve fallen in love and out of love on the same night. I’ve cried in shame. I’ve felt the love of a stranger offering me half his scone on a plane. I’ve felt the fear of starting my own business without a client in sight. I’ve experienced the centering of meditation and the joy of letting go of my preconceived plans. I’ve walked on the beach for hours humming the theme song from Jurassic Park. I’ve been stuck in a 1-person elevator in Prague pressed up against a 6’5″ man and almost hyperventilated to death. I’ve talked with all kinds of people from the mega wealthy to the incredibly intelligent to the unbelievably creative.
And I’ve come to the conclusion that everyone has an important legacy to leave behind. You are not an island. Your thoughts, stories, ideas and love impacts others. Your children, friends, loved ones and communities deserve the best you can offer. Which could be as thoughtful as baking cookies for a neighbor, as meaningful as creating a close family, or as big as pledging to end world hunger.
My work focuses on the development of a meaningful legacy because I’ve been through a lot and seen a lot and, at the end of the day, I believe that all that matters is who we’ve impacted. I don’t claim to know all the answers, but I am dedicated to discovering and sharing the best of what I’m learning and doing.
There are many paths to a fulfilling life. My work offers one path (or components that can be added to what you’re already doing). My team and I have come up with a system for creating, documenting and archiving a meaningful legacy—either for your family and/or to impact your community. If you are interested in the following, I would suggest you see if our work appeals to you:
No matter what, you will leave behind a legacy simply because you have interacted with others. It’s impossible not to leave some memory of your existence. But without the proper planning, that legacy will be accidental. Will your family, friends and loved ones be blessed with the best parts of you? There is an old African proverb that says, “When an old man dies, a library burns to the ground.” My hope is to keep some of that library in tact.
A Handful of Links You May Find Interesting:
All the best,
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ABOUT LAURA ROSER
Laura writes, speaks and consults with clients about how to cultivate an exceptional character and pass on their moral and intellectual assets. Her team of talented writers, artists, and consultants focus on bringing out the meaning and true essence of their clients’ unique legacies.